In life everyone experiences good and bad times. Life is not a smooth road, there are struggles and obstacles, ups and downs. As the holidays are approaching, and the year is coming to an end, I find myself reflecting. While reflecting the point that came to my mind was ‘let it go’. So many times we hold onto disappointments, failures, betrayal, sadness, grief and so much more. What you don’t realize at the time is that you are sabotaging yourself. If the negative moments do not change you as a person, if it does not affect your character and who you are LET IT GO. First off, never give anyone or anything the power to change you or break your spirit and character. You can change you, but no one else. Don’t allow hurt or failures to keep you from moving forward…don’t stay stagnant. The way to move on from the past is to keep pushing ahead. If you are stuck at a negative point, keep moving and look ahead because it does get better. If you are focusing on things you can’t change LET IT GO. What has been has already been, what has happened has already happened. In life we can’t change what has already taken place, but we can control what happens next. You deserve a happy life, and most of all peace. In order to gain your peace you have got to let go of whatever is holding you back from your future. When we continue to focus on the past we miss out on the greatness that is to come. If you can’t change it, leave it behind and keep pushing. No matter what mistakes you have made, or who let you down, everyone deserves to be happy and at peace. Take these last weeks of 2015 to reflect, create a plan of action, and let the past go. Enter 2016 with a positive outlook on your future, and a clean slate on life.
Throughout life we meet many different types of people. Once in awhile you find someone or some people that you connect with on a deeper level, whether it be as a friendship or romantic relationship. If it is a genuine one, you will hold those people close to you, and to an extent go above and beyond for them. The problem with this is that many times we give so much of ourselves to others, that we neglect ourselves. It gets to a point where others’ well being is more of a priority than our own. It is important to step back every once in awhile, and really look at your life and see if you are making decisions that suit you. Its easy to get wrapped in the role of best friend, gf/bf, spouse etc…so much so that you put your desires on hold or tell yourself you’ll do it later. Later may be too late. You have to keep yourself #1 no matter what. Because the sad truth is that everyone won’t always treat you the way you do them, or be there for you as you are for them. Be genuine, but remember your needs as well.
Hello everyone its been awhile since I’ve posted but I’m back! This has been one of the most pressing weeks for me but somehow I’m making it. I know everyone believes in different things…God, the stars, Buddha…whomever or whatever you believe in hold fast to it. I haven’t been feeling so well the last few days but a moment ago I had to stop and just smile. Sometimes, you have to just stop the worrying and the stressing, and just take a second to reflect. I know that everything may not be working the way I feel they should, but I’m still blessed anyway. I realize that even when I’m at my lowest I’m still on top. I woke up this morning to six beautiful angels. If that doesn’t make you smile, I don’t know what can. I say that to say that it could be worse. Some people go through life alone, with no one in their life but I have my beautiful children who are keeping me going. As parents we can’t stop. No matter how tough life gets, they are the reason we keep moving, and doing our best to be our best selves. This morning I truly thank God for my children-my motivation. In the midst of it all, I still have so many reasons to smile. So no matter what you’re worried about right now, or whatever has you down take a minute and reflect on all the things that are working out for you. It may not be much, but be grateful anyway.